BDSM Toys: TOP 10 sex toys for beginners in BDSM

Fantasies of hot, rough caresses with elements of BDSM excite the minds of many couples, but everyone decides on frank experiments. Games with bondage, dominance can "shake up" the monotonous intimate life and create a special connection and trust between partners. In our article, we have collected 10 best bdsm toys for such experiments. They are ideal for those who try such caresses for the first time.

1. Handcuffs

Being an essential attribute of bondage and discipline, handcuffs are a popular and harmless way to spice up bedtime entertainment and test your soul mate for obstinacy. The sight of a bound, shackled helpless partner, the feeling of one's power over him is a special pleasure. And both a man and a woman can be subordinate. But you can try to switch places!

How to use handcuffs in sex:

• Limit your partner's movements by chaining him to furniture and interior items.
• Connect the partner's limbs together using 2 pairs of handcuffs or special carabiners.
• Experiment with bold sex sofa positions by tying up your partner. Take inspiration from erotic films.
• For the most daring - connect your hands with a partner in the manner of a policeman and a criminal from American action films. Go to a crowded place and enjoy the reaction of those who notice the "bracelets".
• Tips for using handcuffs. In the assortment of our store there are a variety of options for this toy for adults: leather, synthetic fabric, metal, silicone, with fur, chains. Beginners are advised to choose models with wide, soft cuffs, and do not tighten them tightly for the first time, so as not to injure the hands and not pinch the vessels. With key-lock toys, it's good to have a spare set of keys kept in an accessible, secure place. Never leave a fettered partner alone for long, even if it's part of the fantasy.

2. Eye mask

This innocent accessory does not betray its belonging to the thematic culture. However, a simple blindfold can give unusually sensual experiences and embellish even familiar love scenarios. Vision is the most powerful channel for perceiving information. With its deprivation, the rest of the senses begin to work in full force.

How to use the eye mask:

During the foreplay, blindfold your partner, turn on relaxing music, caress him lightly, feed him fruits and sweets. Taste, tactile, auditory sensations, in the absence of visual contact, are unusually aggravated.Erotic massage blindly will bring a lot of frank experiences to the recipient. Play with different materials - touch your partner's body with pieces of soft fabric, fur, feathers, try hot wax, massage oil and ice cubes.When moving directly to lovemaking, use a wider headband or earmuffs to limit outside sounds.

Tips for using an eye mask. Special BDSM masks differ from sleep accessories in width, dense material, and a sealing rim around the edges. From the inside, it may have a different texture - sliding satin, delicate fur. During sensory deprivation of a partner, ensure constant contact, touch the body without moving away for a minute, this will enhance the sensations. Talking and touching will help maintain the trusting atmosphere of eroticism.

3. Flogger

A short soft whip with a lot of tails is ideal for starting the practice of spanking. The flogger is designed specifically for light impact. It is impossible for them (if not done purposefully) to cut the skin, cause severe pain. The flaggelation whip is great for warming up before using harder devices. And it is also a subject for intimidation, sometimes it is simply demonstrated to scare, and not to apply.

How to use the flogger:

• This toy with one of its appearance sets in a special way. Casually show your partner the flogger during normal caresses. Tell him what you are going to do with the whip.
• Move the ends of the tails over the skin of the erogenous zones, tickle and lightly stroke them.
• Diversify sex with role-play scenarios that include punishment. Come up with tasks for failure to complete which relies on flogging.
• Do not hit the same place for a long time. Use the flogger brush to describe "eights" instead of using it like a fishing rod.
• If you feel confident with the simplest flogger, tie knots at the ends of its tails (for intense pain) or buy a hard device.
• Tips for using the flogger. The first experiments with whipping are best done in the company of whips with soft, not very long (to avoid overlaps) tails without additional rivets, knots and crackers. Remember that warming up should begin gradually and gently. Avoid blows to the back in the area of the kidneys and near the face.

4. Stack

An elegant accessory came to BDSM from jockeys. A flexible thin cane with a clapper, tail or whip pommel is used for pinpoint strikes. The stack gives tangible pain due to the small area of \u200b\u200bapplying the entire swing force. Outwardly, such a rod looks extremely decorative, but it is able to create an atmosphere of dominance and cause sweet experiences.

How to use a stack in sex:

• Gently tease your partner's erogenous zones by running the end of the stack over them.
• Use the device for targeted whipping with the tip of soft parts of the body - hips, buttocks.
• Strikes can be applied with the entire length of the stack, using it like a rod. Strike from a short distance, laying down your partner comfortably.
• Many role-playing games and costumes are perfectly combined with this accessory. Invite your partner to try on the outfit of a strict mistress / master or teacher.
• Tips for using the stack. Beginners are advised to choose a stack with a pommel without metal rings or rivets. They are capable, with uncertain handling, of injuring and dissecting the skin. Pay attention to the fact that a rod made of any material should be smooth, with machined edges. It is impossible to work with a stack and rods in areas of the body where the tendons and bones are not covered by a layer of muscles.

5. Gag

The attribute of submission and humility will appeal to those who are not ready to experience strong physical sensations. Gagging devices are produced in various shapes (the most popular are ball and bridle) from soft and semi-rigid materials (silicone, latex, rubber, plastic). Being in the mouth for a long time, the gag causes profuse salivation, which can also be an element of humiliation. A gag does not deprive a person of the opportunity to make sounds, with him it turns out to mumble, moan, but it is impossible to pronounce something clearly.

How to use a gag in a BDSM session:

• Put on the classic version with a ball to your partner before spanking or sex. Enjoy his muffled moans.
• The dilator ring gag is good for forcing oral sex. Choose the size carefully so that the erect penis does not get stuck inside the ring.
• The snaffle bridle is suitable for pet play. Soft wide bridges will protect the partner's tongue from biting during intense pain (spanking, temperature, punctures).
• Numerous options for dildo plug gags can create the feeling of double penetration.
• Tips for using a gag. Choose not the largest option presented in the store. A large object in the mouth can injure the teeth, corners of the lips, it is more difficult to hold it for a long time. Make sure that the gag does not interfere with normal breathing - it is better for beginners to buy perforated models. When using the expander, do not lay the partner on his back. In this position, he can easily choke on saliva.

6. Nipple clamps

A universal accessory for men and women, it looks spicy on the body and excites the senses. The choice is huge - clamps with vibration, pendants (in the form of brushes, bells, rhinestones), weights, pumps and chains. Clamps are able to awaken dormant erogenous zones on the chest, they decorate the body during an erotic dance.

How to use nipple clamps:

• Wear miniature accessories under your clothes and show them to your partner.
• Vibro-clamps reveal the susceptibility of the breast. Use them during lovemaking.
• Vary the degree of nipple compression by loosening or tightening the adjustment screw.
• Clips with rings are connected with handcuffs or a collar using light chains.
• Tips for using nipple clamps. For beginners in the world of BDSM, we recommend purchasing clips with soft latex pads - they are the least traumatic. Any objects that squeeze the blood flow should not be left on the nipples for more than 20 minutes - this will lead to impaired blood supply and loss of sensitivity. Do not try to pull, tear off the clips with a jerk, pull the chain sharply - the principle of safety is at the heart of BDSM games.

7. Bonding tape

Soft wide adhesive tape is used instead of handcuffs or for total immobilization during mummification. The strong synthetic tape holds well, does not stick to the hair, and is removed painlessly without leaving any residue. Special intimate adhesive tape can be used on the skin of the face and genitals. Bright colors will liven up the bedroom and help create a fetish look.

How to use duct tape:

• Tie your partner's hands/legs, fix him in an unusual position for sex.
• A few layers of tape will replace the eye mask.
• Completely wrap the body of a partner, depriving him of the opportunity to move.
• Stick small pieces of adhesive tape on the chest and genitals - the outfit for the fetish party is ready.
• Tips for using duct tape. Choose a wide (at least 5 cm) tape - this will not twist and will not cut into the skin during active movements. Don't substitute duct tape for the gag. A slight obstruction to breathing through the nose is extremely dangerous for a partner whose mouth is tightly sealed.

8. Gynecological mirror (expander)

Not every girl will appreciate a specific device for a frank medical examination, but this toy will give an unforgettable experience to a brave couple. Mirrors are made of hypoallergenic materials - steel and plastic, have rounded edges. Their introduction and use as an instrument of love pleasures is absolutely safe. This is an element of a medical fetish, it allows you to implement new scenarios. For the first experience, a one-time option is suitable, and if you like it, take a metal one.

How to use the speculum:

• Relax your partner by giving her an erotic massage. If the girl is tense, the insertion of the instrument will be unpleasant.
• Create an appropriate environment, complement the image for a medical game with other accessories - a suit, gloves.
• For better glide, apply lubricant to the outside of the expander flaps.
• During the examination, adjust the degree of opening of the vagina with the fixation screw.
• Try to additionally stimulate the partner's cervix with your fingers or a vibrator with an open mirror.
• Tips for using the expander. The girl may not be ready to let you "so deep" into herself. To gently prepare your partner for the mirror, practice manual stimulation, fisting. Use quality lubricants with a dense texture that will ensure comfortable insertion.

9. A set of BDSM devices

Manufacturers of sex products make kits at their discretion. Most often, thematic kits include: a collar, handcuffs, a gag, a whip or a flogger, an artificial phallus or an anal plug. A set of accessories allows you to immediately plunge into the world of unknown pleasures and try out different scenarios in bed. Buying a set is more profitable, it costs less than the tools included in it separately.

How to use a set of BDSM devices:

• Use individual elements of the set unobtrusively during the usual love joys.
• Give your partner a full session of bondage, blindfolding and spanking.
• Switch roles and experience what it's like to be in submission.
• Ask your partner to wear a collar or anal plug discreetly under clothing in a public place.
• Tips for using a set of BDSM devices. Huge all-in-one kits are very convenient. The set allows you to determine your preferences and move in the chosen direction, whether it be sadism, humiliation, or a combination of both. Pay attention to the quality and strength of the materials from which the objects are made.

10. Mini vibrator

Miniature devices with a powerful motor look nothing like their giant realistic counterparts. The mini vibrator fits easily into a handbag, will keep you company on a trip, and its neutral shape does not evoke associations with sex toys. However, such kids know how to surprise with strong vibration and variability of application.

How to use the mini vibrator:

• Use the finger vibrator to stimulate your partner's clitoris or anus during vaginal penetration.
• The vibrating egg is perfect for caressing the penis and scrotum. Press the vibrator to your cheek during oral stimulation, the partner's bright climax will not keep you waiting.
• Massage your partner's chest, neck, groin in search of new erogenous zones.
• Vibrating bullets are suitable for inconspicuous wear for a long time.
• Tease the tied partner with a vibrating toy, increase his arousal, but do not let him experience an orgasm. Or vice versa, arrange the torture of multiple orgasms without interruption.
• Tips for using a mini vibrator. A small vibrating accessory is suitable for novice users of adult products. When choosing, do not chase the number of speeds, you will still include 2 - 3 favorite ones. Do not aim for the most powerful model - for many people, excessively intense vibration seems ticklish or unpleasant.

Trying BDSM games is worth any couple. It is not necessary to hurt, you can experiment with psychological dominance and submission. It is interesting to dress up in thematic costumes, to try on the role of a subordinate or a dominant. Accessories only complement the invented scenarios, help to bring them to life. Many things in the 10 BDSM sex toys are also suitable for vanilla sex, and just make intimacy a little spicier and more attractive.In order not to make a mistake in choosing intimate things, read reviews of BDSM products, study descriptions and videos. And we will deliver any purchase as soon as possible. Everything is anonymous and safe!